SELF-WORTH ALERT

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Hey You 🙋🙋,

I know you are upset because ‘they’ didn’t choose you. ‘They’ have a less mentality of you. Just know that whatever they choose OVER you was less than what they had WITH you.

So stop trying to make people who don’t have ability to handle expensive gift choose you because when they do, they won’t know what to do with you.


There is something called SELF-WORTH, it is an internal state of being that comes from self-understanding, self-love and self-acceptance. Abraham Lincoln wrote “it is difficult to make a man miserable while he feels worthy of himself”.

So please have a high level of self-worth instead of getting upset.

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