Odyssey of life with Temilola

I want to take a journey back into the ancient times, the times of our fore fathers. When there was no technology or any form of advancement in the world, when things were done according to our culture and tradition.              My mum explained to me how marriage rites were carried out. How a woman is meant to keep herself and remain a virgin before marriage. She also explained to me how the groom’s family pays a woman’s dowry/bride price and takes items to the bride’s parent. Am sure some of you know this history.              After the marriage ceremony, the man always return back to his people and the brides people to tell them if his wife is a virgin or not. if the wife is a virgin, after the first intercourse on the wedding night, he uses a white piece of cloth to clean the blood that comes from the woman’s sexual organ. He then takes the piece of cloth to his family and the bride’s parent telling them he ...

To discern is to know, recognize or understand something especially something that is not obvious; To see or hear something but not very clearly.              I believe that when the creator created us, he created us all with a discerning spirit. But due to sin and non-chalant attitude, we have not been able to notice our ability to discern things.             Not been able to discern things have affected a lot of people. Note that there is always a feeling we have when some things are about to happen to us. it could be good or bad, there is always a feeling that comes before it. But many people have ignored this feelings, in the process, some have missed out, opportunities have been lost, death has occurred just because of the ignorance of not being able to discern.              A young man woke up one morning and was feeling very uneasy, he  couldn't...

There is a punishment or defeat that is deserved and cannot be avoided, this punishment is called NEMESIS.             Sometimes ago,  I always think that no matter what some people do, they can always get away with it. But years later, I realize that you can’t always have your cake and also eat it meaning that you cannot have the advantage of something without its disadvantage. I know that some people always feel they are on top of their game but things cannot always continue like that. You don’t expect to hurt your fellow human and get away with it.              Are you a guy who thinks he can get any girl whenever he wishes, are you out there hurting young ladies and thinking its normal. Do you date five girls at a time, do you molest young girls thinking they are immature and can’t do anything to you. Do you encourage abortion? NEMESIS             ...