ALMOST

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“We didn't do it but we ALMOST had it…thank God”... This and many more are words that you hear from young people of today... well I know this article can be odd to some of my readers but its reality..

            Almost is a term used for something that nearly occurred…the ALMOST am talking about in this post is the one that occurs between a male and a female… many youth who claim to be virgin have gone through the process of ALMOST, they have engaged in one sexual activity or another…sexual activities such as oral sex and many more, the only thing that qualifies them as a virgin is their hymen that has not been broken (ladies) and the fact that they haven’t had sexual intercourse (guys).. But they have done ALMOST…
            Some Christians who are into relationship too due to church doctrines and morals taught in church abstain from having sexual intercourse but they have tried ALMOST with their spouse/partner…
            Many will say, I have not had sex before, I haven't slept with any guy or lady but they have had ALMOST…ALMOST have kept a lot going…Masturbation too is part of ALMOST, any form of sexual activity anyone tries that doesn't involve sex is called ALMOST.
            Am sure many have had almost and many are still having almost…arousing yourself by touching sensitive parts of the body is ALMOST…many get their sexual satisfaction from ALMOST….
            Many youths believe that nothing is wrong with having ALMOST, as long as it does not involve sex…ALMOST can lead to anything, that thing which you are trying to avoid can happen if you try ALMOST… in the process of having almost, your emotions can fail and you will end up doing what you don’t want to do.
            Well, I have been a victim of ALMOST. Sometimes you really can’t help the feeling that run through your body during this time, something inside of you keep shouting and telling you to stop but the flesh is very active and so you can’t stop. Instead the flesh keeps telling you that it wants more. You keep telling yourself I won’t have sex, I will just stop when it’s about to lead to sex…you might be unlucky..
            The best thing is to avoid ALMOST until you are ready for the main thing. For deep Christians, you realize your conscience won’t allow you rest until you ask God for forgiveness because you know you have gone too far with ALMOST.
            Many have gotten pregnant all because of Almost, some have contacted STIs all because they started with ALMOST. Some have tampered with their destinies because they have started with ALMOST that ended with SEX.
            If you are out there and you are still involved in ALMOST, I will like to say you should pause and think deeply about this. I understand it’s not very easy dealing with ones feelings and emotions but with time and with great discipline, you will overcome the flesh.

            SIN DOESN'T HAVE ONE TIME AGENDA; DON’T AROUSE YOUR EMOTIONS UNTIL THE TIME IS RIGHT…         TOTAL ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST… I CARE

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